Monday, August 8, 2011

The Top Six

I read an article today that I found pretty interesting...enlightening...I read it this morning and spent the rest of the day thinking about what it had said and how I felt about it's message.
It was entitled...
The Six Qualities Men Find Most Attractive in Women:
They are, as follows...
1. Femininity: Most men don't want to be in love with 'other men'. They want to love a woman...the epitome of softness, warmth, beauty and tenderness; a woman that portrays herself as a daughter of God. Beautiful to look at - elegant..classy -
2. Confidence: A woman who knows who she is and what she wants and portrays that in her actions, thoughts and words. A woman who can hold her own standing next to the man she loves, as an equal partner and companion.
3. Be a Challenge: knowing what SHE wants and getting him to want HER because of it. Making herself someone he desires but needs to deserve and 'work for'...not being 'hard to get', but 'worth getting'. Not a 'beck and call' girl..but an 'I'll get back to you' girl.
4. Possesses a 'soft heart': a woman who 'feels' all the emotions appropriate in a loving and thriving relationship - a woman who is 'easy to forgive others' and nurture the needs and cares of others....'his place to fall' at the end of a long day...the heart he wants 'to hold his' with all the kindness and gentleness needed to hold it forever.
5. Modesty: A woman who knows that what she 'has' is hers to have, not to be used to tease, entice or accommodate a man's inappropriate desires. A woman that keeps her body, thoughts, actions and words in a place to where others in her company will always feel comfortable.
6. Sense of Humor: A woman who brings laughter to the heart of another is the one that all are drawn to as they enter her presence. Never at the expense of another, her words and expressions of joy make others laugh..she lightens hearts, heals wounds, gives hope and encouragement by her smile and ability to make others laugh at what is to be found as joyful. Her laugh rings in his ears in his alone moments and puts a smile on his face and in his heart.

Sweet huh?
Made even sweeter knowing that these were a list of qualities desired by the men in this world about the women in this world.
I imagine there are the 'exceptions' out there of men who desire other things in women, but it's nice to know that the men that I know in this life are the men who desire these top six qualities.
Hoping that I can, over the years, finally achieve these top six qualities along with those of many others...



1 comment:

AnnCP said...

I like these qualities that you found. Do you mind me posting them on Facebook and blog to share with all my single friends - who need a little help?

When do you guys leave on your cruise?